Sunday, August 23, 2015

ATTUNEMENT

Thanks to the experiments of the ingenious Rupert Sheldrake we’re aware that dogs know when their masters are coming home. When the Victorian psychic researchers first thought about such things they called it ‘thought transference’; Mark Twain called it ‘mental telegraphy’. But  they eventually decided to call it ‘telepathy’, because what was being transmitted was more than just thoughts, but a whole range of images and feelings. Thus: tele (transmission) of pathos (feelings). Tele-pathy is about sympathy, empathy and responsiveness felt psychically, across a distance. Interestingly, how great the distance makes no difference.
Sometimes a telepathic message is obvious, but trivial and dismissed: “Funny you should ring, I was just thinking about you”. Sometimes it comes as a jolt from a sudden death of a family member miles away; or in the let-down of a mother’s milk when her baby needs her on the other side of town.
 
So much more communion goes on between people than we realise, but it goes on subliminally, that is, outside our awareness.1 Some of the most important communications between people need no words at all. We can feel an atmosphere. We can sense the emotion in a look or in a subtle demeanor. Behind us we can detect  being stared at ; and no one has to tell us when we are 
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People cannot respond to the inwardness of another if they are cut off from the subliminal level. Yes, they can talk to others. They can exchange greetings, they can even discuss politics or family problems. But without being attuned subliminally there can be no empathy, no instantaneous connection.
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The subliminal attunement with another person is absorbing what has not been articulated. Attunement takes place below the level of cognitive awareness. It is not a representation, or a picture; it is not a portrait, a depiction; and certainly not a ‘case history’; it does not consist of data. We are not indulging in ‘interpersonal communication’. We seem to be two entities interrelating, but this is only the outward appearance. Real connection is the psychic event. This subliminal event is not just about you or me. It happens between us. The meaning of ‘us’ is not ‘you’ plus ‘me’. It is a third entity – a tertium quid. And when I experience it I see myself – only expanded; and when you experience it you see yourself, amplified. Something in you enlivens me; and through this, you are quickened too. This is where the boundaries that separate you and I are permeable.
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Having sung the praises of silence and all that happen in that clairvoyant underworld, one should not minimise the value of words and of speaking out. After all, before counselling was even named it was called ‘the talking cure’. There is a dynamic relationship between speaking and silence, between our conscious analytical intelligence and the subliminal level. To speak, you first have to listen to yourself; and that means waiting in silence.
Looking into any difficult situation, you wait for an idea; you wait for the subliminal to assess the problem, to weigh it up, to evaluate it; and it does so under the hood. The subliminal will deliver its answer in the form of words that you can speak. Hearing yourself speak it aloud will strike up further questions for the subliminal to assay. So, its like a seesaw process – backwards and forwards, each step stimulating the other side in the ongoing process of unwinding and clarifying the problem.  When you are attuned to yourself, good ideas come through. The problem is constantly re-evaluated. That’s really what paying attention to the felt-sense is all about. The conscious ego cannot do this alone.
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There can be a negative side to our subliminal connections, for example, in a home life where the atmosphere has been toxic. When we consider the influence of parents on a child there is more involved than would seem. More importantly there is the pressure of the parent’s subliminal psychology. This is absorbed telepathically by the child. It’s the hidden atmosphere of home life. Not unusually, there are aspects of a parent’s subliminal that are just the opposite of their declared intensions and overt behaviour. Thus, the subliminal atmosphere is completely hidden, both at the time and recalling home life later on.
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The subliminal level of our being is intimately telepathic and not only with friends and relations. It is in potential contact with other realms of being. All the unusual phenomena we associate with psychic phenomena (psi) are experience by people who are more open this connection – and are sometimes flooded by it. It is also the source of our creativity and our madness. When this realm is felt just on the other side of the veil there is a vitality, an élan vital; and people will go to any lengths to have the connection, whatever the cost.  The whole world of drugs supplies this vital magic in our disenchanted and materialistic world. The war against drugs is the is the establishment’s fear of the subliminal realm and its tendency to dissolve habitual structures.
It is feasible to regard the brain as adjusting attunement, filtering, screening and excluding all that we do not require for our immediate survival. Altered states of consciousness such as those produced by LSD or MDMA, as well as the psychoactive plants used by many indigenous people, open the doors of perception dissolving habitual mental structures. The painted veil of common reality is torn aside, luring us into hyper-reality.
 Aldous Huxley, like Henri Bergson, Ferdinand Schiller, William James, Frederic Myers and others, believed the brain functions as a filter, normally shutting out perceptions, memories, and thoughts that are not necessary for everyday survival. Rather than producing consciousness, the brain largely diminishes what consciousness is capable of revealing to us.
 As astrophysicist David Darling says in his book Soul Search, ‘we are conscious not because of the brain, but despite it.’ 2
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1    Fredric Myers (1843 – 1901) coined the term ‘subliminal’. Under this umbrella term should be included what we have called in counselling the ‘bodily  felt-sense’, as well as various psi phenomena: telepathy, telekinesis, clairvoyance, near death experiences, past-life recall in children, poltergeist hauntings and ghosts, ufos and alien abduction, savant syndrome, cases of prodigious memories, channeling, out-of-body and mystical experiences, precognition, psychedelic trance states and hypnosis. All these are considered ‘rogue’ phenomena by current scientific paradigm.
     http://realitysandwich.com/173104/brain_filter_removing_stuffing_keyhole/
 
 
 
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